Thanks for writing this. Not just the warning about the survey, because I'd've needed one line from a trusted fannish source (such as kink_bingo) to be suspicious, but also for the explanation you troubled to give them. I wouldn't have put it together myself (woefully lacking in formal reading of related theories (now I have books to add to my list!)), but now I'm just headdesking at their not getting it.
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I want to go an fill out absurd answers, now.