I think that's a really good way to put it -- it really is just this casual way that people ignore what someone says about hir experience. No matter what the axis of oppression, it's always "I'm sure it wasn't that bad" and "I'm sure he didn't mean it" and "you're overreacting."
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Date: 2009-12-20 04:44 pm (UTC)